I went back and forth about a proper DC vs shopvac. To be fair, I recognize I'm more caught up in the gear acquisition phase than actually building stuff right now.
I wasn't willing to spend money on a DC unless it either vented outside or the exhaust was HEPA clean. Wynn's filters come close to HEPA standards. The issue I had is this: HF DC + Wynn filter + separator was coming in around 550+ depending on the separator. Plus I'd probably have to spend some money on tools to cobble the thing together.
Something like a Grizzly G703P is all-in-one, was the cyclone design I preferred, close to HEPA, and was $900 delivered, with no extra fiddling.
... If I were looking at $900, then it's not too much more for something like a Mini-Gorilla, which is definitely HEPA.
... But then a Oneida V-System is also HEPA, and much beefier than the mini Gorilla, only for a couple hundred more.
... But then people seem to be universally happy with the ClearVues, and that design is approved by Pentz himself. And it's only a bit more. Too bad it wouldn't fit.
... But if I knock out the floor underneath the kitchen maybe I could….
At that point, I realized I had talked myself up to $2k for a dust collection system for a hobby that I couldn't be sure was a fad or a lifelong hobby. The point is, it's ridiculous.
So I went with a Ridgid WD1450 (not much more airflow than your Fein), stuck a HEPA filter in it, connected it to a cyclone separator, and use it at the tool with a mask. I let the sawdust settle and vacuum it up the next day. Probably doesn't solve your problem exactly, but what I'm trying to say is that if you're anywhere near my beginner stage, I'd recommend sticking with stuff that can be repurposed if you find you're not as interested in it as you thought you'd be.