you have interesting dimensions for the table brantley, 28 square feet leaves alot for the imagination, 2' x 14' could be an interesting table. but perhaps u mean 4' x 7'.
I agree with the above posts calling for an apron or skirt.
A single bolt coming from the top of the leg would seem to be appropriate to attack a stick to a flate surface but ignores a few key elements. One such would be "racking", your massive (white oak @ 1 5/8 is pretty heavy) is going to sway with the wind if you just bolt 4 legs straight into it. Would the "added support" you speak of in your post would be hinting at aprons?
Aprons function to keep your surface flat over time and also to keep your legs together and prevent the racking ( a good wide apron could potentially negate the need for stretchers closer to the bottom of the legs, but keep in mind a dining room table gets a lot of use)
As has been mentioned above, you must be aware of fastening these components to the table surface and you should be aware of the woods movement over time across its grain, (i.e don't accidentally lock the wood in by putting two or more screws on a short end of the table through your apron)
Other options for dining room table are trestle style tables, very sturdy indeed for dining tables.
http://www.michaelhoywoodworking.com/resources/trestle.jpg
Pictures would certainly help!