let me take another shot at this.
as i have learned the hard way, when you start any project, you need a starting reference for everything that follows. think of a project that you have 10 1"x1"x1" square blocks stacked ontop of each other. If just one of them is not "referenced" to the first, you will have a leaning tower. all measurements, angles, reference points start with the first flat reference face you did on the first block. you base the entire tower on that first block. this is the purpose of a jointer. to give you that first flat face as a reference for everything else.
you run a 2×4 across a jointer. great, you have your reference point. you flip it over and run the 2×4 across the jointer again. you would think the top and bottom are now perfect. they are not. the top face could be 1degree, 2degrees, etc from the bottom face. and those degrees stack up for every inch.
this is what the planer does. by leaving the first 2×4 jointed face on the bottom, as the 2×4 feeds into the planer cutter heads hitting the top of the 2×4… it is always constantly being referenced against the perfect bottom. end result, perfect parallel top and bottom to EACH other.
plus, with a planer… you can say i just need 1/32" off the top to make the board exactly the size i want. or 1/8th, or 1/4th, etc. Hence the name Thickness planer as you can whittle away at the thickness of a board.